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Not Cool, Dude

So, I’m floating around the socialmediaverse the other day when I suddenly see that someone’s posted a link to a piece by Sady Doyle about Sam Morril ...

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The Great Gatsby (2013) – Movie Review

 

 

I’d been waiting for this incarnation of The Great Gatsby forever. I can’t tell you when I first saw the trailer, but I know it was a long time ago.  I had been building anticipation since that first glimpse and I was ready to burst by the time I got my butt into my movie-theater seat. My unnatural and unjustified dislike of Leonardo DiCaprio’s  face had run its course and I was ready. I was ready to accept the opulence that Baz Luhrmann had to offer.

The Great Gatsby was one of my very first book loves. We came together when I was still too young to understand its intricacies, but it still made an impression. The second time I read the book, I understood it and fell in love all over again. I hadn’t a clue when I first read it, but the imagery Fitzgerald’s words conjured in my brain, created vivid memories that I can still recall whenever I think of Jay Gatsby.

It’s safe to say that I had high hopes walking into that theater. Nevertheless, I had prepared myself to be let down.  I had told myself repeatedly that I would likely be disappointed in one way or another, so I shouldn’t be too hard on Leo & Company going in. Then just before the feature presentation, I got hit with the Before Midnight trailer; so many endorphins were released into my bloodstream, that I was in a borderline euphoric state by the time the movie got underway. This, is the only way I can explain having eventually accepted the framing device of Nick Carraway (Toby McGuire).  In this version of the Gatsby tale, Nick Carraway is in a sanatorium and badly in need of a cathartic experience.  Nick’s good doctor suggests that he “write it out” and so he does just that.

It’s weird, I know.  I was wondering what the hell was going on the first few minutes because it was such a complete departure from the book. Once I figured out that this trite trip-up was intended to give the story some context, I calmed my nerd tits and enjoyed the show. I made sure to remind myself, though that I needed to roll with the punches and have a good time; I’d waited too damn long for this.

Not only did I need to suspend reality for the duration of the film, I also had to suspend judgment in order not to ruin the entire experience. In other words, I couldn’t judge this movie based on the book.  The book is a universe of experiences and lessons.  This movie was just that, a film based on a beloved novel. This cinematic version wasn’t intended to be a carbon copy, but a new interpretation of ideas, circumstances and emotions.  A movie is a completely different animal from a book, I know because I obsess about both, sometimes.

And so we begin our journey into the roaring twenties with Nick Carraway as our guide.  Through Nick, we’re introduced to his fabulously wealthy cousin, Daisy Buchanan (Carey Mulligan).  Daisy’s married to Tom Buchanan (Joel Edgerton).  Tom and Nick know one another independently of Daisy as they went to Yale together.  Tom’s a real jackass; he’s rich, bored, hostile and horny. Daisy and Tom live in East Egg on Long Island. Nick has rented a cottage directly across from their Mansion in West Egg where the nouveau rich live, where Gatsby lives. As a matter of fact, Nick’s cottage is adjacent to Gatsby’s sprawling estate. Nick, having heard all the rumors about Gatsby’s background, was quick to accept an invitation to one of his legendary fêtes.

Nick finally meets the elusive Gatsby and they swiftly become friends. Gatsby later has a favor to ask of Nick.  Gatsby needs Nick to invite Daisy to his cottage for tea, so that he can “serendipitously” stop by. It turns out, Gatsby’s got a bit of a thing for Daisy and those two go way back. They were in love once, but Gatsby had to leave her to fight in the war and Daisy, well she married Tom while he was gone. It’s all very tragic when Gatsby’s obsession with recapturing a romanticized past, takes center stage.

Most of this sounds familiar, right? As well it should. The Great Gatsby remains far more faithful to the novel than I had anticipated. For me, it’s important that a movie, based on a book, keep most basic ‘facts,’ in tact and in proper sequence.  I need this in order to make the connection between the literary and the cinematic, in my own mind and to more easily become enveloped in the movie.

By now, I’m sure you’ve read some reviews for The Great Gatsby.  I’m also willing to wager that you’ve read mostly negative ones and I think that’s a shame. I suppose I can understand why critics wouldn’t appreciate this newfangled version; with its hip-hop and 3D, it’s a lot to take in.  While I can accept that some will reject anything, but an original, sometimes you just have to be willing to leave your expectations at the door, especially with regards to film.

Despite what you’ve heard, I think The Great Gatsby is worth your time.  Not only do I think you should watch the movie, but I think you need to see it in 3D. I will ask you a favor though.  Leave those literary expectations at home because you’re going to the movies.  This isn’t the great-American-novel experience, it’s Baz Luhrmann’s visual extravaganza, based on a great literary work. Suspend reality for a spell.

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Leonardo DiCaprio gets his own paragraph and this time, I’m giving it to him willingly.  I can’t say I was surprised that he nailed it, but I’m not sure how else to describe his performance. I suppose I was more grateful, than surprised. Yep, that’s it, I am thankful Leo didn’t let me down. DiCaprio brings a devastatingly and slightly ruggedly good-looking Jay Gatsby to the table. He got the look just right and that might not sound like a great feat for Leonardo DiCaprio, but he didn’t just look the part, he radiated it.

I don’t know about you, but I like when actors use their faces when they’re acting.  What I mean is that I greatly appreciate performances that convey emotion and entire stories, via expressions and mannerisms.  Again, I enjoy watching people do good work and DiCaprio’s Gatsby demonstrates skilled execution. Leo glides with just enough swagger to make you wonder about him.  He entices with a mere glance.  His charm is undeniable and ever-present, he was an excellent and amplified Jay Gatsby.  Well done DiCaprio, for now I accept your face and no longer wish to stab it to bloody bits.

Carey Mulligan  as Daisy succeeded where Mia Farrow  did not.  When I first saw the 1974 Gatsby movie I was left puzzled. Not only because again, I was likely too young to fully understand adult relationship complexities, but also because it was kind of a bad movie. Gatsby ’74 was dreamy and tragically romantic in a way only a young and foolish girl could fully appreciate.  Mia Farrow’s Daisy was so shallow and one-dimensional that I got nothing beyond the surface. All I got from Farrow was Wounded Bambi Syndrome. I felt bad for her the way I would feel bad for a lost puppy, but she’s not conveying anything beyond that.

Carey Mulligan, on the other hand, gave me a little more insight into Daisy.  The regret, love, disappointment and tragedy all register individually as well as jointly on her face throughout the entire movie. Mulligan is without a doubt, talented; she portrays a woman you just want to ‘shake the shit out of’ and I think that’s spot on for Daisy  Buchanan.  There’s no better way to describe her character in the book or this movie. Mulligan pulled through despite the fact that she sometimes looked like she was playing dress-up in the stunning costumes.

Toby McGuire gets a bad wrap, because I enjoy him. He does that wounded and naive thing really well.  He’s as emotive as he needs to be and adds a nice dimension to Gatsby’s story. He was an excellent choice for Nick. Elizabeth Debicki was great as Jordan Baker, but she was sadly underused in the film’s version of the story. Joel Edgarton is so delectably mean-spirited that he cannot go without mention as well.

The performances were good and the visual effects were sensational.  They really brought to life some of those ‘memories’ I spoke about in the second paragraph. How Luhrmann managed to peek inside my imagination and see how I projected Fitzgerald’s words, is beyond me.  I just know he did it, that’s the only plausible explanation for how similar my mental images and his visuals are.  It’s cool to say the least. Sure the effects are over the top and often times teeter on excessive, but I believe that this was the intent. Jay Gatsby was about being so far over the top that there was nowhere to go, but backward. Like I said, if you go in expecting to get a re-telling of the novel, you’ll end up angry and disappointed. If you go in with an open mind you will likely enjoy the experience. After all, the novel was, in great part, about transporting you to a notorious time and place. Now, go watch it, in 3D.  You can thank me later. I love you too.

 

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The Great Gatsby (2013)B+

 

B+ = Give this one a go for sure.  You will most likely enjoy it and if /when it comes on cable, you will probably watch it through to the end regardless of your starting point.

Not Cool, Dude

So, I’m floating around the socialmediaverse the other day when I suddenly see that someone’s posted a link to a piece by Sady Doyle about Sam Morril (a stand-up comic) on Global Comment (a web magazine).  Below is a link to the full text of Doyle’s article.

Not So Funny: Sam Morril’s Rape Jokes and Female Comedy Fans

The woman that initially posted the link to the above article online got a reply directly from Sam Morril rather quickly.  His response wasn’t out of line and it sparked some good conversation, but that was as far as it went.

Through reading this exchange, I gathered that Morril makes a lot of rape jokes.  The other women participating in the online conversation were all rightfully offended by his rapey jokes.  These ladies also specifically commented on how sometimes it can be difficult to be a woman and be into comedy. I fully agree with them on that; however, this is likely the only point upon which we agree.

As a feminist and avid fan of stand-up comedy, I too wanted to provide my input on this matter. So, I dumped my unfiltered thoughts onto my keyboard and then promptly deleted them.  I figured I should probably read the full text of Sady Doyle’s article before documenting anything.

With that, I clicked over to Doyle’s article and settled in to read her account of Sam Morril’s stand-up act. Doyle notes joke after joke made about rape, domestic abuse and the like. She also details another woman’s run-in with Daniel Tosh.

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Apparently, last year a woman who vehemently disagrees with making light of rape in any way, heckled Daniel Tosh during his stand-up act.  According to Doyle, Tosh retaliated by threatening the woman with rape. Doyle goes on to detail her disgust upon learning that comics across the country were coming to Tosh’s defense. She says, “…This is how it goes, between female comedy fans – especially feminists – and male stand-up comics. Let’s be entirely clear here: These are grown men who get paid money to stand in front of an audience and say, quite literally, whatever they want, as long as they think it’s funny. And yet when women talk back, especially if it’s not flattering, we’re “idiots,” pigs, better off raped, or better off dead.”

BLOOD BOILING

It was at about this point in my reading that I noticed the tension that had built up in my jaw. My initial thought was that Sady Doyle was wrong because no one should be talking back during a comedy show to begin with. It’s called heckling and it makes you the asshole. This was also about the time that I started questioning my loyalty to the Feminist cause.

You see, I’ve been a life-long fan of stand-up. I’ve loved laughing, at all the “wrong” things, for as long as I can remember. Hell, Richard Pryor taught me to curse, Bill Cosby taught me that there’s a time and place for everything and Ellen DeGeneres taught me that a spaz doesn’t need to hide her spazziness to make it in this crazy world. Comedy got me through the shittiest of times and because of that, I will always respect the power of a sincere laugh. I’m also a feminist though and comics make fun of women a lot, which sucks.  It sucks because I worry about my rights as an American woman and I don’t want to support people or things that make a mockery of my beliefs.

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All I need are a few good laughs. What I want is to know that I will always have the right to choose what I can do with and to my own body.  I also want to make just as much money as the guy next to me, who does exactly the same job I do. I want to know that the world has finally accepted that any jerk cannot just roll up on me and rape the shit out of me, whenever he feels so inclined.  I want the people of the world to accept that even if a woman goes out butt-ass naked, she’s still NOT asking for it (No, you are NOT irresistible, we do not want the D.  Get the fuck outta here with that shit.).

Now, if you’re not an avid comedy fan, you might not see the conundrum. As previously stated, in comedy, women are frequently looked at as a punch line.  We get ‘fucked’ metaphorically in that we’re the weaker ones, so we get called names and we’re put down.  Sometimes, we’re even physically abused in jokes, just to get a laugh.  It’s pretty messed up, I know. I’m also pretty sure a lot of the comics, that tell these jokes, know it too.  I’m willing to bet that some of them make these jokes to underscore the hypocrisy and bring light to these important issues.  No all, but some and that’s all we need. Ultimately, I feel that comedy isn’t just about the laugh even if it’s mostly about laughs.

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While it does suck to get made fun of, beaten up and humiliated as a gender for laughs, it sucks far more not to be able to turn heavy shit into light-hearted laughter. I don’t know about you, but laughing at the fuckedupness of the world helps me to not slit my wrists. Additionally, if I couldn’t let off some steam by telling a joke or laughing at one, I’d likely have been certified insane by now.

After a period of contemplation, I deduced that comedy and feminism, two vastly different concepts, can indeed exist symbiotically in my loony bin of a mind.  If you disagree, I’m not quite sure how you opened a tiny door into my head, but I can tell you right now, John Malkovich is probably way more interesting, so back away. Don’t worry; I’m no less committed to women’s rights when I’m laughing at Daniel Tosh’s tacky jokes. The laughs just makes me a feminist with a good sense of humor.

What I’m saying is this:

I understand that folks have heard this a million times, but comedy is indeed meant to push buttons. Comedy is there for good times and laughs. The catch is that those laughs are to be had at everyone’s expense, equally.  Nothing is off limits.  Comedy, much like music, is everywhere and ain’t nothin’ wrong with that.

What’s obvious to me may not be obvious to everyone else though, so I think it’s time to clarify why I think Sam Morril’s all aces and the woman who heckled Daniel Tosh, got what she deserved.

First thing’s first.  Sam Morril took the time to respond, when someone randomly posted a link to a disparaging article about him, online. He wasn’t rude or curt; he was forthcoming and willing to take a beating to defend his work. I found that to be the honorable thing to do and I respect him for doing so. While I’m not a fan of his act, I would be willing to see a live performance in order to formulate a more informed opinion.  I’m not one to like a comic who is heavy handed with the rapey jokes, but that’s just personal preference, you never know.

Now, Daniel Tosh:

How can I defend the guy that comes off as a total asshole with his sophomoric humor and offensive jokes? Well, I suppose I can laugh because he’s funny.  Believe me, I want to hate on the guy every time he makes a racist, Mexican joke that gets under my skin, but instead I just laugh and laugh. In case you missed it the first time, I laugh because he’s funny and this is comedy after all.

While we can’t be certain if Daniel Tosh is an actual asshole or if he just plays one on T.V., we can be sure that he’s a stand-up comic. As such, it is his job is to get up on stage and make an audience laugh. Our job as comedy-club-goers is to STFU and enjoy the show.  Laugh when merited and show some respect, that’s all the comics ask. That’s not to say that you shouldn’t interact should one of them single you out during their act. Go for it; you might have fun. Nevertheless, you should have the decency to respect the person you’ve paid money to see perform.  He / She is an entertainer and this is their show.  Upon purchasing a ticket you enter into an unspoken contract.  You watch the show respectfully and they’ll do their best to show you a good time.

You wouldn’t voice your aversion to a particular song choice while watching a Broadway musical because that song came off as offensive, would you? No, odds are, you wouldn’t. If a racial slur is dropped in a movie and it offends you, you’re likely not going to complain to management.  Why then, would you heckle a comic and drop a reality-bomb of flaming dog shit, smack in the middle of their set? This is what confuses me.

To the lady who heckled Tosh last year:

How disrespectful are you to shit on the person trying to make you laugh?  Additionally, you went into a show built around an establishment where the Aristocrats joke is legend and measure of comedic ability, what the fuck were you expecting? Don’t get me wrong, I agree in that rape is wrong.  Rape is fucked up and no means no.  Nevertheless, rape isn’t what’s going on here, its comedy. Settle down; you needn’t give a plethora of fucks. All you need to do is quietly gather your things and walk out. That way you can (at the very least) respect everyone else who showed up and is having a good time.

ASSHOLE

I don’t know about you, but I find that the best way to show a comic that I don’t like their work is by not buying tickets to their shows, not purchasing any of their merchandise and refraining from watching any of their T.V. shows or movies. Withholding funds is most effective; you should give it a try.

In other words, unless Daniel Tosh showed up at your work place and started pointing out all your mistakes, you have no right to fuck with his act. It’s rude and disrespectful.  If you’re not into it, leave or better yet, don’t go in the first place. Take the five minutes necessary to Google a comic’s name on your smart phone before you buy tickets to a comedy show. Give stand-up comedy and comics the respect they deserve for putting their shit on the line for a laugh.  I cannot imagine the courage it must take to face a crowd of drinkers who are looking for funny. I have witnessed many a bomb on stage and man, that is  some tragic shit.

To my feminist friends, I don’t think this is a case of men simply shutting silly girls up. Maybe, just maybe we need to calm our tits (yeah I said it) and take a step back. Laughing at what most frustrates me, always makes me feel better so I don’t know why you continue to resist. Sure it’s hard to be a female comedy fan, but the laughs wouldn’t be so gratifying if you didn’t have to work for them. Besides, I don’t think laughing at ourselves makes us any less effective it just makes us more human.

This Guy’s Not Wasting Anyone’s Time

 

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If you haven’t seen it yet, prepare yourself.  This guy’s right, he’s right about everything and man do I hope he becomes a teacher.  I’m applauding you in my living room, buddy; I want to applaud you every time I watch.

 

 

Stand up for things that matter guys, because  you’re the only one that’s got your back.  Trust me on that.

 

 

 

Everything?

DEAD GIVEAWAY

Yep, there is music in EVERYTHING.

 

That is all.

 

 

News Links for the Week of Tuesday 07 May 2013

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Not Breaking, but Interesting News

The

You’re Not too Old to be Arrested

Edition

 

you can't hide for long

 

 

 

 

Germany arrests ‘former Auschwitz guard’ Hans Lipschis – bbc.co.uk

 

 

 

safety matters

 

 

 

 

Limo fire: Bride’s ride to shower turns into deadly inferno – mercurynews.com

 

 

 

eww-face

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sucking on your kid’s pacifier: good idea or gross? – reuters.com

 

 

 

GERMANY-BRITAIN-FILM-ATKINSON

 

 

 

 

Domestic Terror Attack Thwarted in Minnesota: FBI – abcnews.com

 

 

 

grow

 

 

 

 

 

Medical pot: California Supreme Court allows cities to ban weed dispensaries – mercurynews.com

 

 

 

WTF GUYS

 

 

 

 

Ricardo Portillo’s death calls for a campaign to respect referees – washingtontimes.com

 

 

 

CALM YOUR TITS

 

 

 

 

 

 

Youtube Videos: Will Users be Paying Soon? – au.ibtimes.com

 

 

 

Relax

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Relax: It’s Good for Your Genes – time.com

 

 

 

 

Run for your life

 

 

 

 

 

They’re back: 17-year cicadas to swarm from Georgia to New York – reuters.com

 

 

 

NERDGASM

 

 

 

 

 

 

EA signs deal with Disney to develop ‘Star Wars’ games – digitalspy.com

 

 

bad mama jamma

 

 

 

Helen Mirren storms out of London theatre dressed as queen to berate noisy drummers (with video) – vancouversun.com

 

 

 

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MUST WATCH: 3 Young Women Missing For 10 Years And Locked In House Freed By Awesome Good Samaritan – upworthy.com